I’m Marty Ortiz, a confidence coach for women who want to feel grounded, fulfilled, and confident in their lives, especially during seasons of singleness, transition, and self-discovery.
This blog is a space for women who are learning how to build confidence, reconnect with themselves, and create a life they genuinely enjoy, single or not. Here, we’ll talk about self-love, mental wellness, personal growth, and what it really means to stop waiting for happiness and start choosing it.
I write for women who:
• Have goals they want to achieve but feel stuck
• Wonder if lasting happiness is actually possible
• Feel disconnected from themselves or unsure of what’s next
• Are navigating singleness and craving confidence instead of pressure
For a long time, I struggled with exactly that.
I lacked clarity, vision, and purpose. I doubted myself constantly and lived inside my head, listening to every fear and limiting belief telling me to stay small. Those voices kept me from going after what I wanted, from speaking up for myself, and from trusting that I was capable of creating a life I loved.
Over the last decade, through heartbreak, growth, and a lot of self-reflection, everything changed.
I learned how to stop abandoning myself.
I learned how to build the real long lasting confidence.
And I learned that happiness isn’t something you wait for, it’s something you choose and create.
I am at a point in my life where I can truly say I am happy, and nothing can take that from me. I am deeply grateful for my experiences and now want to share this state of happiness with you. There are people out there who would like to experience more happiness, who would like to improve how they feel and I believe you are reading this for those very reasons!
So stay tuned and and follow me on Facebook, Instagram and TikTok where I share what makes me happy in this single and happy life of mine!
